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"Beautiful" Carter
- Apr 25, 2019
- 1 min
SHE'KIERRAH HILL
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
She'kierrah Hill, 18, shot and lay dead as her 11 month old, who was also shot twice, was found crawling around between his parents two dead bodies(the boyfriend/father shot himself as well). This was not the first time Domestic Violence had visited this home. But this time, he acted out what he had promised.
This precious prince was not crying when they found him. I want to believe that his mommy had already wrapped her arms a
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Apr 23, 2019
- 1 min
SHERRY BILLUPS, FLY HIGH MY QUEEN
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
My heart wont allow me to understand the fear and pain this Queen Sherry Billups, 35, experienced as her husband set her on fire. The person that was suppose to love you forever was the same one that toke your life away from friends and family. How could only 2 months of marriage go so wrong.
Queen, i can only apologize for the pain you went thru. I pray you got your wings fast so you didnt have to feel the devastation. Fly high
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Feb 13, 2019
- 1 min
VALERIE REYES
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
The cries of a mother is the worst. Valerie Reyes just 24 lost her life at the hands of someone who onced loved her. He loved her so much he tied her up and stuffed her in a suitcase. A SUITCASE. When I saw the suitcase I literally got sick to my stomach.
My Queen, I pray that you have your wings now and that you wrap your arms around your mom. She is hurting and needs to know you are ok. Live your life free my Queen as you have
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Jan 31, 2019
- 2 min
LIVING WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
Yeaterday I was extremely proud of my self. Proud of myself to the point that I cried because it was another step closer to my yellow brick road.
When I was in my abusive relationship, there was never a day I missed work. EVER. My ex would have days off and i wouldnt want to be there. Even the days I was sick I would go into work just so i wouldnt be home with him. I remember one year it snowed so bad it toke me 3 hours to get to
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Jan 24, 2019
- 1 min
TULVEL MCDOUGALD
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
I totally understand. You think it just wont happen to you. Just one more time cause there is no way he is going to kill me. But THIS was 27 year old Tulvel Mcdougald last time. Didnt matter how beautiful she was. Didnt matter if her young Princess needed her. Didnt matter if she had a family that loved her. THIS was the last time.
My Queen, I apologize to you for the fear you must have felt. I apologize that your daughter was ho
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Jan 11, 2019
- 1 min
COURTLAND JONES
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
One thing I can factually say is Sexual Abuse doesnt have a name, a race, a certain job, a sex, etc. It attacks anyone at anytime. Look at him. You would never know by his business attire and handsomness.
Meet my King Cortland Jones who was sexual assaulted by a family member at the tender age of 4. I need you to understand how someones life is STRIPPED away from them by someone elses CHOICE. How do you expect someone to grow up a
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Jan 8, 2019
- 1 min
WHAT IS GASLIGHTING?
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
Gaslighting is prevalent in alot of relationships. Gaslighting means basically a form of psychological manipulation. Makes you start questioning your own sanity, perception and memory
Pay attention if some of these things are happening to you in your relationship:
1. Constantly second guess yourself
2. You often feel confused and even crazy
3. Your always apologizing to your partner
4. You make excuses for your partners behavior
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Dec 11, 2018
- 1 min
SAFETY IS KEY IN LEAVING A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
The last couple of victims that I have posted about recently did something that I felt the need to speak on.
RULE #1 - Telling your boyfriend/husband girlfriend/wife that you are leaving OR you have another partner is a DEATH SENTENCE. That sends the abuser over the edge. The "if I cant have you no one will" statement is REAL. Do NOT do this. You must leave with a plan and in silence.
1. Make a escape plan
2. Set money aside
3.
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Nov 19, 2018
- 1 min
AISHA FRASER
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
I'm going to say this again, Domestic Violence does not discriminate. A former judge and a business development director was known for his violent past. In 2014 he punched Aisha Fraser more than 20 times, slammed her head against a car dashboard fracturing bones in her face, bit her on the face and guess what? He ONLY served nine months. At that time their daughters witnessed the terrible attack.
Aisha divorced him but that just w
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Nov 2, 2018
- 1 min
LIVING MY BEST LIFE
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
As A Domestic Violence Victim one thing we never did was take life for granted. We werent allowed to do our hair the way we wanted. We couldnt wear make up, maybe lip gloss. We could only smile when we were told. We werent allowed to look in anyones direction. Life wasnt ours.
Today, I Lori D. Carter, a Domestic Violence Surviving Survivor, stand in MY truth
I smiled today on purpose because I can.
My song goes like this:
"Smil
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 29, 2018
- 1 min
20 THINGS ABUSERS SAY
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and
Queens
Day 29 Domestic Violence Awareness
I have literally heard every single one of these and eventually it became apart of my life. It will and had taken more of my life to reprogram myself into NOT believing it.
Beware of the 20 things that abusers mean and say:
1. You're a dumb Bitch
2. You'd be more attractive if..
3. It didnt hurt that much
4. I'll kill myself if you leave
5. I love you and it will never happen again
6. It's not
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 12, 2018
- 1 min
MEET THE CEO
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
I put in the work and STILL do everyday and created a new me despite my past. One step at a time. My yellow brick road awaits me.
Afi Gaston Thank you for this journey. Its us together baby for life. I love you
Kevin Deleono Ryan thank you for allowing me to heal every day and TRY and be the the best mom I can be, flaws and all. You gave this Queen life and I Thank you. I love you indefinitely.
Create your happiness. You can
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 10, 2018
- 1 min
KRISTIN GILE
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
Day 10 Domestic Violence Awareness
I'm just curious, how do you tell Kayleigh 12, Jacob 11, Alivia 10, Jackson 7, Sophia 5 and Colton 3 that their mommy did everything right by following the law and getting a restraining order but daddy doesnt follow it and runs her off the road shooting and killing her and killing himself? HOW ARE THEY SUPPOSE TO UNDERSTAND?
My Queen, Kristin Gile, I'm sorry. I'm sorry that you were trying to li
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 9, 2018
- 1 min
GASLIGHTING and PROJECTION
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
Day 9 Domestic Violence Awareness
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or in members of a targeted group.
Basically Gaslighting makes you question your own sanity, memory or perception.
Projection is a theory in which the human ego defends itself against unconscious impulses or qualities by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others
At th
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 8, 2018
- 1 min
SAFETY PLAN
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens
Day 8 Domestic Violence Awareness Month
Leaving a abusive relationship can be extremely dangerous. You can't just leave. You must plan.
Alot of you have been asking what you can do to help. First let me thank you and I love you. Sharing my post is huge. Its bringing awareness and helping someone that may he secretly going thrusomething. Keep sharing. That's a huge step.
Below I have shared a safely plan. Use caution
I love yo
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 6, 2018
- 1 min
BRITTANY SMITH
Good morning my Beautiful Kings and Queens I cant imagine the fear that this young Prince felt. On Oct 3, 2018, he went down three floors in a hotel and walked to the front desk to tell them that his mommy had been shot. When police arrived, Brittany Smith, 23, was dead. Her abuser also killed himself. As much as I post I still wonder WHY. Why does a innocent life have to be taken because of a failed relationship. Love Is not suppose to be this complicated. My Queen Brittany,
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"Beautiful" Carter
- Oct 4, 2018
- 1 min
LASHONDA CHILDS
This young princess wal suppose to be getting ready to celebrate her 18th birthday. Instead her family is planning her funeral. Lashonda Childs, 17, knows Domestic Violence all to well. Her boyfriend, who was 28, had previously bit her so hard he drew blood. He would make her walk with a gun in her back, steal her phone,etc. She even broke up with him and had a protective order but he just wouldn't leave her alone. She even posted about Domestic Violence on social media. "Dom
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